In this episode of As in Heaven, Jim Davis and Mike Aitcheson welcome back Justin Holcomb to discuss how pastoral pitfalls and failures can ultimately lead to “dechurched casualties.” They’ll delve deeper into the topics of malpractice, narcissism, and guarding our kids from sexual abuse.
Episode time stamps:
Episode and topic introduction (0:00)
What is narcissism? (1:16)
The dangers of narcissism in the church (3:52)
Wisdom in leaving a dangerous environment (5:39)
Characteristics of a narcissistic church leader (10:39)
Why do people leave after a pastoral pitfall? (14:37)
What to say to those who have left the church (18:02)
What to look for in a healthy church (20:15)
Resources for parents on guarding our kids from sexual abuse (24:01)
Resources mentioned in this episode:
God Made All of Me by Justin Holcomb and Lindsey Holcomb
God Made Me in His Image by Justin Holcomb and Lindsey Holcomb
God Made Babies by Justin Holcomb and Lindsey Holcomb
Rid of My Disgrace: Hope and Healing for Victims of Sexual Assault by Justin Holcomb and Lindsey Holcomb
Is It My Fault?: Hope and Healing for Those Suffering Domestic Violence by Justin Holcomb and Lindsey Holcomb
The Gospel Coalition