Courtney and Melissa talk about how to recognize and repent of the ways we may be relying on self-righteousness rather than Christ’s righteousness.
They talk about tribalism, what happens when debatable issues are treated as primary, and how, paradoxically, the areas where we feel despair may point to pride or self-righteousness in our lives.
Related Resources:
Finding the Right Hills to Die On by Gavin Ortlund
The Sticky Sin of Always Being Right
Self-Righteousness Wears Many Disguises
Discussion Questions:
1. What are some things that come to mind (such as good practices or habits) that can quietly become a source of pride?
2. In what ways do you notice self-righteousness creep into Christian community in subtle or socially acceptable ways?
3. Are there particular areas of obedience or conviction where you feel tempted to compare yourself with others? What might that reveal about your heart?
4. In Philippians 3:4–10, Paul calls his impressive spiritual résumé “rubbish” compared with knowing Christ. What does this passage teach us about the difference between our righteousness and Christ’s righteousness?
5. Why do you think it can be so easy to trust in our own efforts rather than resting in Christ’s righteousness?
6. What are some red flags in your thoughts, attitudes, or conversations that might signal self-righteousness creeping in?
7. How can Christian communities encourage holiness and obedience without creating an atmosphere of pride, comparison, or tribalism?
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